My brother Ian was such a decent person that simply I do not have the words to say how much I loved & respected him. Sadly he was also deeply troubled by his difficulties & my attempts to get him to see the light & respect himself for the wonderful person that he was ultimately & tragically failed. I am in the wonderful arms of Dorina & am surrounded by an extended ‘family’ of caring friends many of whom knew Ian & have been so sympathetic to me, I know their help has only just begun. In the words of Tim ‘with friends like these I am indeed a rich man’ but forgive me for also feeling that Life has just given me my cruellest blow. Only on Friday I had said to Roger ‘I am happier now than I have been for many years’ & yet almost exactly at that same moment Ian was taken away from me. I & many others are thinking of you Ian, you are now at peace & we must find ours by remembering the times we were lucky enough to share with you. My Love & memories are with you.